Do you ever long for those early days of your relationship when everything was new, exciting, and romantic? When you couldn’t keep your hands off each other and planned fun outings all the time?

For many couples, after the honeymoon phase ends, they start to feel like they’re just coexisting – more like responsible roommates than passionate partners exploring life together.

But it doesn’t have to stay that way! There are many fun and meaningful ways to reclaim the magic, adventure, and novelty you shared with your spouse in the early stages of your relationship.

Here are some ideas to bring back that honeymoon energy:

Plan Regular Date Nights

Don’t just wait for special occasions to go out together. Schedule a recurring date night once a week or every other week. Take turns picking adventurous activities and new places to explore in your community. Make it a point to try things you’ve never done before.

A couple we worked with made it a goal to try one new restaurant in their city every Friday night. Tasting new cuisines together and sharing the experience brought them closer.

Take Weekend Getaways

Get out of your routine and book a weekend trip somewhere you’ve never been. Whether it’s the mountains, beach, or a new city – explore. Waking up in a different place will feel nostalgic of your early globetrotting days.

One pair of childhood sweethearts we know started taking mini road trips to small towns close by just for the day. Getting away kept things fresh.

Indulge in Hotel Stays

When you want to reconnect, book a night at a nice hotel in your own city. Order room service, soak in the tub, sleep in, and lounge around. Removing daily responsibilities lets you focus completely on each other.

Try New Experiences

Seek out new experiences you can share – take a pottery class, learn salsa dancing, go rock climbing, get couples massages. Discovering new passions side-by-side brings novelty and adventure to your relationship.

Exchange Surprise Gifts

Find thoughtful little gifts that show you were thinking about each other when apart – a favorite candy bar, gardening gloves, a book by their favorite author. Surprising each other keeps the butterflies alive.

A husband we worked with has flowers delivered to his wife’s office on random days “just because.” It makes her feel cherished and loved!  The beauty is in the randomness. 

Prioritize Quality Time

Don’t get so caught up in responsibilities that you forget to set aside quality time. Make your relationship the priority. Turn off your phones, cook dinner together, go for long walks, lounge in bed on Sundays.

One woman we coached started instituting “tech-free” hours in the evening when they would just talk, listen to music, or play board games. It strengthened their bond.

If you need more help reclaiming the honeymoon phase with your spouse, check out our Light Your Spark program. Visit www.lightyoursparks.com to learn more about reigniting your relationship. Don’t settle for a dull routine – recapture the magic you deserve!